SBF seeking SBM

Is there a stigma associated with single women over the age of thirty? I work with two women over thirty and single. Before I started working here I never really paid attention to single women. If so, I bought whatever story they were selling about, how they were happy, and focusing on a career yadda, yadda, yadda. Mostly because I didn’t care, partly because I used to accept everything people said at face value, kind of a benefit of a doubt stance. But here, one of the single women is very…transparent. She’s close to if not yet 40, physically attractive, successful, attractive and frankly…a train wreck. I have a nick name for most of the people that I work with. Her nick name is ‘tourette’. Here is a sample conversation. T: “what are you drinking?” AA: “Protein shake” T: “Why? Are you trying to say that I’m fat? (note: she’s not in my opinion at all fat shes probably a size 8) What are you anorexic?” …I used to take offence, but now I see her differently. The other is 31 has a banging BB (before baby) body I mean BANGIN’, very smart, loves the Lord so much she visits him 3 days a week at church. She still lives at home and once during a lunch at a local restaurant laughed out loud at the victims of the California mudslides and said “That’s what they get…they should have moved”. Why is it so hard for people to find a compatible mate for those who realize that is what they want out of life? I really believe that there is someone out there for everybody How do they find each other? Personally I think the start is having knowledge of self and speaking the truth. I think people should stop saying they don’t want to be married…99% of the time, I think it’s a lie. We designed to be with another person...at least thats what the good book says...